I'm feeling better. This can be because the tax season ends Friday or because I booked us a long weekend away at the end of the month or both.
The end of the tax season most definitely doesn't mean the end of my busy work schedule but not seeing so many clients a day does help to reduce the stress level. We are all going away for Jason's birthday at the end of the month. He loves the place we are going to. It's his absolute favourite place. I even tried to bribe him into going to the sea but he would have nothing of that lol
Some things I'm doing to reduce my stress level:
- Say no
- I am trying to force myself to only think/worry about one thing at a time. I have this thing where I have a zillion thoughts running through my mind, things that need to get done. Now I am trying to teach myself to make notes of all the things and only concentrate on one thing at a time.
- Stop trying to force so much work into one day. I push myself to complete whatever I'm busy with before I go home in the afternoon. I set goals for myself and I work at it as fast as possible to get it all done in my time frame. Which is most often only mine and not my client's.
- Spend more time doing fun things with the boys. It always relaxes me. Instantly.
- Take my time nursing Zander as my time. Where I sit back and think of nothing else but nursing him and stroking his little chubby hands.
I have an eye infection. I wore no make-up today. I wonder what my clients thought of me! Well, I normally don't' wear much anyway, so maybe no-one noticed? One can only live in hope hey!
Posted at 05:18 pm by MelfromSA
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Broom Girl July 14, 2006 08:29 AM PDT
Where you going for Jason's birthday?
You have been very quiet lately. Are you ok? |
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Hannah July 14, 2006 07:46 AM PDT
I've been thinking of nursing as my time too. It's quiet and relaxing (except when we swtich to the other side, she always cries until she gets the other boob!). I'm glad you all are going away. Sounds like you need the break! |
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angel July 13, 2006 09:24 PM PDT
shmaark the new header doll! |
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angel July 13, 2006 09:23 PM PDT
i'm glad you feel a bit better, i think i would be too if i was looking forward to a holiday! |
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C-Shell July 13, 2006 02:32 PM PDT
Hi Mel. Wishing you strength.
So glad that you have booked a holiday - good for you (are you coming to the sea???)
Sorry to hear that you have an eye infection - hope it clears soon. I hope it's not contageous.
I envy your nursing time. |
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Randi July 13, 2006 03:33 AM PDT
I'm glad your feeling better and your going away soon:) Hope the eye infection clears up soon!! |
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mrs. diamond July 13, 2006 03:21 AM PDT
I'm glad you're getting away. We're doing that this weekend for Ruby's birthday too. Hope you get to relax. Like Wenchy said, I'm worried about you too. |
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Wenchy July 12, 2006 08:38 PM PDT
I am worried about you |
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Karin July 12, 2006 07:33 PM PDT
I hope you feel better soon...there always seem to be certain times of the year that are just so stressful and you just know that if you get through them, you'll feel better, but it feels like it's never going to end.
I once forgot to wear makeup on a day that I had parent/teacher conferences...lol! I felt the need to explain to everyone why I had no makeup on...hehehe! |
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