I asked Tommie yesterday if he could come fetch Quintus when he is finished at work.  He finishes before me on a Friday and Quintus seemed bored.  When I got home, they weren't here.  I phoned him and he was at Johan's - in his bar!!  (he says it's not a bar, as it is behind Johan's office and there is grass where Quintus played)  When he got home, I could smell that he had been drinking.  I was livid.  I told him that I would leave him immediately, if I had anywhere to go.

I bathed the kids and he told me that he is going out.  He went drinking with his friends again.  Didn't even try to work things out between us....just went drinking.