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Don't piss me off and then as an excuse say "but I enjoyed it". I might have to get a fork and stab you to death. It seems as though they other "mature" partner in this house is moving back towards his immature activities. I honestly will not stand for this. I'm ticked off beyond words. For the past few Fridays, he has gone out (with a good excuse every time). Not again. No bloody hell. If he wants to go out, he'll be taking me with or staying at home. Can I just scream here quickly? AAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Okay. So he comes home from work last night and says that he wants to take Quintus to go watch some cars racing. He wants to spend some time with Quintus after us being hard on him for his bad behaviour. I'm like all impressed and says it's a great idea. They leave at 5 pm and he says they'll be back at the latest at 8 pm. I'm not too happy with it, as it's darn cold but I can see that spending time with his dad will be good for Quintus. I phoned them at 7.30 pm and he says that they are waiting for one more car to race and then they'll be back. Probably around 8 pm. So I'm sitting on the carpet, sorting out the problems. The more my back goes into spasm, the more I get stressed up. (probably the reason for the spasm) I'm watching the clock more than I'm building puzzles (to see how many lost pieces we have and what puzzle piece must go into which box). I phone just after 10 pm. I'm pissed off and he can hear it. I told him to put off the alarm (with his remote) before coming in, as I don't want the alarm to wake Jason. He left then as he could probably hear that I was completely not impressed when he told me that Quintus was sleeping in the car (when I told him it is WAY too late for Quintus to be out) He gets back and wham. The alarm goes off. My blood boils. I put the alarm off. He carries Quintus in and puts him into bed. I can smell that he has had a drink. NO DRINKING WHEN YOU ARE LOOKING AFTER MY (our) CHILD! It was most probably just a beer. I don't feel comfortable with that though. I asked him why he is home so late and he says "but we enjoyed it". He can be glad that I was tired and too lazy to get a fork from the kitchen. Asshoooooollle. (think The Fuckers) Yes, I suppose it's bad to blog about how upset you are with your husband. You know though? You piss me off and I blog about it. Cope with it. |
| Shel September 5, 2006 06:33 PM PDT Oooooh, I understand completely! Men. Grrrrr!!!!! Oh, and I love that movie Meet the Fockers, it's great, lol. | ||
| Sarah September 4, 2006 09:22 AM PDT You should have got the fork and stabbed him. Sorry, but that was complete f*ckwit behaviour. How far away from him was the car with your sleeping child? What if the car had gotten stolen? I hope you can get through to him about this. | ||
| Jessica September 3, 2006 04:49 AM PDT Hi Melany, You leave lovely comments on my blog all the time, and I felt this would be a good time to leave one on yours!! Just by coincidence, my DH came home with one too many in him last night... DROVE HIMSELF HOME... I've never been so dismayed!! Put himself, my AND our 5 kids in danger by putting himself on the road in that condition... I hope that today is a better day for you, it is for us thankfully... I just pray that he never makes that stupid of a deicision again! Hang in there!! | ||
| Grace F September 3, 2006 03:19 AM PDT Hello Mel, I am back commenting again. I had several blog entries about the husband-bad-behavior thing. I can't help it if I'm pissed off! Nothing like an immature behavior from one mature adult could tick you off. I hope things get better soon. | ||
| Charlotte September 3, 2006 12:38 AM PDT Oh Mel, I'm sorry this happened. I do know what men can be like at times lol! He really shouldv'e come home at the time he said he was going to. Hope you and the family are well. I have a new blog www.lottysworld.blogspot.com this is my main blog. | ||
| Dudette September 2, 2006 08:33 PM PDT Now that is totally irresponsible of him - you don't drink when your children are with you, even if it was only one beer. Hope you make him understand why you are angry! and why is it that men just don't get it? They think what they did is perfectly normal and yes I agree with you he should take you with him if he wants to go out - this going out on his own (ok I know Quintus was with him) is not on if you are married. Just a thought, keep a fork in your bedside table drawer. lol | ||
| mrs. diamond September 2, 2006 06:51 PM PDT (hug) I hope you can get your feelings through to him. And drinking when caring for a child would be a no no in my book too. | ||
| Hannah September 2, 2006 09:14 AM PDT This is your outlet, blog away! I would've have been angry too. It seems as if moms are often the responsible ones, not always, but often. It's SO not fair to you. *hugs* | ||
| Lilly September 2, 2006 09:12 AM PDT I am just SORRY. I hope he will understand and stop it, before real problems will appear again. Ohhhh | ||
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